Gaming for Mental Health

By: Bruised Wayne.  If you had told me a year ago that I would find a profound therapeutic tool in a hyper-realistic SWAT simulator, I would have gently suggested we explore that thought in our next session. As a semi-retired therapist, my career has been built on traditional frameworks: talk therapy, cognitive behavioral techniques, and the sacred space of the counseling room. My realm was the internal landscape of the mind, navigating the traumas, addictions, and anxieties that people carried with them. I started as a substance abuse counselor; I’ve seen the harsh aftermath of poor choices and systemic failure. I believed I understood a certain stratum of human struggle. And yet, there was a chasm in my understanding—one that existed right across my own dinner table. My extended family is, for all intents and purposes, a law enforcement family. Uncles, cousins, in-laws—their careers span from local patrol officers to federal agents. Our family gatherings are a unique blend of wor...

  : Have you ever caught yourself grinding through yet another daily challenge in your favorite game, not because it brings you joy, but because a notification told you to? We make intentional choices throughout our day—what we eat, how we move, even how we set our mood—so why doesn’t that same intention apply to gaming? If we asked ourselves one simple question before every gaming session—“What do I need today?”—our relationship with gaming could transform from a task into a tool that genuinely nourishes us emotionally and, yes, even financially. I learned this the hard way during a particularly frustrating gaming slump. I found myself automatically booting up a battle-pass grind in a popular shooter every evening, not for enjoyment, but out of habit. The rush that once came from leveling up had long dissipated. Instead, I felt drained—broken out of real-world momentum and stuck in a void of incomplete challenges. It wasn’t until I paused and asked myself what I was actually se...