Gaming for Mental Health

We have a picture in our minds when we hear the word "addict." It’s a stereotype etched by decades of public service announcements and crime dramas: the figure in the shadows, the person who has "lost everything," whose life is visibly unraveling at the seams. This image, while real for some, is dangerously incomplete. It acts as a blindfold, allowing us to believe that addiction is a problem of "other people"—those on the margins of society. This myth lets us ignore the colleague, the neighbor, the executive, the parent who is managing their life while secretly in the grips of a dependency. The truth is far more pervasive and insidious. Beneath the surface of normalcy—behind the polished desk, the successful career, the seemingly stable home—exists a hidden class: the functional addict. They are the hidden junkie class, individuals who use drugs or alcohol, often in significant quantities, while continuing to meet their professional, financial, and social...

The Arcadian Rhythm and Our Evolutionary Alarm Clock If you are someone who wakes up not to a gentle sunrise but to the internal blare of an alarm clock you never set, you are intimately familiar with the morning cortisol spike. This surge, a core component of your circadian rhythm, is an evolutionary masterpiece designed to propel you from sleep to action . It regulates metabolism, decreases inflammation, and provides a burst of glucose from your liver for fast energy, priming your body and mind to face the day’s demands . In essence, it is your body’s way of making you bright and aware first thing in the morning. However, for many—especially those with conditions like CPTSD—this physiological marvel can be misinterpreted by the mind. What the body intends as preparatory energy can feel like hypervigilance or free-floating anxiety. The hormone that is meant to be a tool for engagement becomes a source of distress. This is not a sign of weakness; it is a sign of a system that is workin...

By: Bruised Wayne.  If you had told me a year ago that I would find a profound therapeutic tool in a hyper-realistic SWAT simulator, I would have gently suggested we explore that thought in our next session. As a semi-retired therapist, my career has been built on traditional frameworks: talk therapy, cognitive behavioral techniques, and the sacred space of the counseling room. My realm was the internal landscape of the mind, navigating the traumas, addictions, and anxieties that people carried with them. I started as a substance abuse counselor; I’ve seen the harsh aftermath of poor choices and systemic failure. I believed I understood a certain stratum of human struggle. And yet, there was a chasm in my understanding—one that existed right across my own dinner table. My extended family is, for all intents and purposes, a law enforcement family. Uncles, cousins, in-laws—their careers span from local patrol officers to federal agents. Our family gatherings are a unique blend of wor...

  : Have you ever caught yourself grinding through yet another daily challenge in your favorite game, not because it brings you joy, but because a notification told you to? We make intentional choices throughout our day—what we eat, how we move, even how we set our mood—so why doesn’t that same intention apply to gaming? If we asked ourselves one simple question before every gaming session—“What do I need today?”—our relationship with gaming could transform from a task into a tool that genuinely nourishes us emotionally and, yes, even financially. I learned this the hard way during a particularly frustrating gaming slump. I found myself automatically booting up a battle-pass grind in a popular shooter every evening, not for enjoyment, but out of habit. The rush that once came from leveling up had long dissipated. Instead, I felt drained—broken out of real-world momentum and stuck in a void of incomplete challenges. It wasn’t until I paused and asked myself what I was actually se...